Can We Please Stop Making Our Pleasures ‘Guilty’?

This is something that I see on a near daily basis. ‘Listening to X is my biggest guilty pleasure!’, ‘I have an unhealthy obsession with X!’; we are constantly putting down the things we love. This is the official definition from Google:

‘guilty pleasure (noun)

something, such as a film, television programme, or piece of music, that one enjoys despite feeling that it is not generally held in high regard.’

Now I don’t know about you, but I can’t actually see anything in that definition that implies we should feel in the slightest bit bad about what we like. Sure, what we like might not be commonly appreciated, but that doesn’t mean to say we shouldn’t like it anyway.

So why do we call them guilty pleasures? Do we really feel bad about liking them? We certainly don’t seem to be too embarrassed by them if we’re tweeting about them or putting them our online profiles, so why not just own the fact that its something you like?

Its far from a secret that I love Disney, right? Well that’s because I talk about it all the time. I love talking about it, I even take pride in it, so when I see people claiming that Disney is their ‘biggest guilty pleasure’, I can’t help but take a little offence in the fact that they think its something that they should be embarrassed by or feel guilty about. I’ve talked before about referring to certain food as ‘guilty’ or ‘cheat food’, and personally I don’t think its any different when talking about other aspects of life. We’re imposing our own negative connotations, rather than just enjoying life.

If you love listening to Spice Girls, good for you! Like to put ketchup on pancakes? Ok! Just be confident in who you are and what you like.

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2 thoughts on “Can We Please Stop Making Our Pleasures ‘Guilty’?

  1. I’m totally with you everytime someone asks me that question I just don’t know how to answer it as I don’t feel guilty about any of my pleasures and why should I they make me happy and I don’t really care if people see them as childish/weird or whatever because their opinion doesn’t matter, we should be able to celebrate the things we love without having to feel guilty about it xoxo

  2. I’m guilty of saying X is my guilty pleasure. But I’ve stopped saying that recently because I’m not actually embarrassed or ashamed of what I like, even if they aren’t necessarily ‘cool’ or what other people might like. If you enjoy something, own it! Great post 🙂

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